how do I decipher a girl?

started by jatin-phoenix 7 mnths ago
i had a fight with a female friend of mine.
the next day i tried to talk, she replied " m still angry with you, i'll talk to you when my mood changes".
i left her alone thinking there was no point arguing.
after three days she came online and was still angry. but this time the reason was different.
she tells me " you dont care about me. i told you i dont wanna talk and you didnt say a thing. tum mujhe mana nahi sakte the kya?. tumhe koi chinta hi nahi hai.!! "
you should have seen that bewildered look on my face.

what do the girls expect from us?

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  jaijui posted Re:how do I decipher a girl? on 7 mnths ago
jatin, sweetie  how long have i know n yu ?  long time na  
have i ever expected anything ..i mean anything from you      ?     nahi na ...

jokes aside  ..knowing girls are complex  ..knowing you guys love them ..why cant you take a lil trouble to understand them  ...indulge them  give them what they want 
to me....that makes for a super guy ..a large hearted indulgent  generous guy ...no girl can resist one  such ....guy  


  Dr. Rakshak Mal Lodha posted Re:how do I decipher a girl? on 7 mnths ago
she makes you fool
regards
  deep purple posted Re:how do I decipher a girl? on 7 mnths ago


  deep purple posted Re:how do I decipher a girl? on 7 mnths ago

Women typically do not start deciphering themselves before 34-35.


  Remaya posted Re:how do I decipher a girl? on 7 mnths ago
She expects a lot of pampering from you, thats a way of assurance of Love

  shakenbut!stirred posted Re:how do I decipher a girl? on 7 mnths ago
Try Braille...

  Shamoli Sarkar posted Re:how do I decipher a girl? on 7 mnths ago
"tum mujhe mana nahi sakte the kya?. "

I think she made it so clear.  What more hint is needed??
Agar rooth gayi thi to mana lete.
Very simple.
  jatin-phoenix posted Re:how do I decipher a girl? on 7 mnths ago
usne kaha woh gussa hai...
said i'll talk to you when my mood changes.
so mood change hua toh khud baat shuru karni thi na...
  Shamoli Sarkar posted Re:how do I decipher a girl? on 7 mnths ago

Learn reading between the lines-------------------

(Roothna & Manana )  You better go to her, she will explain you the whole thing. 

 




  Propagandhi1 posted Re:how do I decipher a girl? on 7 mnths ago

this girl flummoxed you? it seems like she did.

  DaUndertaker posted Re:how do I decipher a girl? on 7 mnths ago
dimwit today is leather belt day
  jatin-phoenix posted Re:how do I decipher a girl? on 7 mnths ago
ahhh...u back!!


  jatin-phoenix posted Re:how do I decipher a girl? on 7 mnths ago
yes u can say that.
but the question still remains unanswered.
  Propagandhi1 posted Re:how do I decipher a girl? on 7 mnths ago
yes she is flummoxing. women are like that only. you gotta decide if the pleasure of tapping her in some distant future is worth putting up with the crap. I myself have this matrix..sorta like tic-tac-toe box. on the x axis I rate her attractiveness and on the y axis, my chances of tapping her. if she falls in the top right quadrant, I'll put up with most stuff. the closer she is to the center of axis, the less chance of me putting up with crap. I suggest you avail yourself of this scientific methodology to avoid future flummoxicity.
  carvaka posted Re:how do I decipher a girl? on 7 mnths ago
Each data point is a circle, with the area of the circle representing the level of crap that you are being asked to put up with from the person concerned. You take one look at the top right and go after the smallest bubbles (or the largest bubbles, if masochism is your thing.)
  Propagandhi1 posted Re:how do I decipher a girl? on 7 mnths ago
I like your idea of refining my tic-tac-toe matrix.
  carvaka posted Re:how do I decipher a girl? on 7 mnths ago
We call them two-by-twos in our trade. The four quadrants in a two-by-two are usually given evocative names, like star, cash cow, question mark and dog. When I have some time, I am going to think about the appropriate names for the four quadrants in your bubble chart.
  balakdas posted Re:how do I decipher a girl? on 7 mnths ago
how can there be four quadrants?  this is wrong!
both x and y axes must have only positive coordinates starting from 0.

  carvaka posted Re:how do I decipher a girl? on 7 mnths ago
Yes, but you have to distinguish the lows from the highs. So you draw a line bisecting each of the two axes -- sort of like "average" lines. Then you have four quadrants.
  balakdas posted Re:how do I decipher a girl? on 7 mnths ago
hehe.. good luck!

in reality, this would never work as the "individual" circles keep changing their area as well as jumping back and forth from one quadrant to another on a daily basis.  the best bet is to concentrate on one circle, big or small, and wait/hope for it to get into the top right quadrant :D

i'm out a here now. good night :)
  carvaka posted Re:how do I decipher a girl? on 7 mnths ago
Yeah's life's too dynamic. I'm out as well, good night :).




  Propagandhi1 posted Re:how do I decipher a girl? on 7 mnths ago
why dont we use diamonds for the quadrants? the top right quadrant can be 9 diamonds.
  carvaka posted Re:how do I decipher a girl? on 7 mnths ago
I am not sure I get your drift, but diamonds can be a start...


  Impedimenta posted Re:how do I decipher a girl? on 7 mnths ago
yea, ok. good luck with all that. first flummoxing, now this. good. keep it up you guys.

  DaUndertaker posted Re:how do I decipher a girl? on 7 mnths ago
fatass dimwit today is leather belt day




  Tommy Gunn posted Re:how do I decipher a girl? on 7 mnths ago
Experience speaking. LOL.

  jatin-phoenix posted Re:how do I decipher a girl? on 7 mnths ago


  RS-K posted Re:how do I decipher a girl? on 7 mnths ago
Prop - The one farther up on the x-axis KNOWS that she can get away with anything. She will drop enough hints for a higher on the y-axis possibility. 

Jatin, whatever happened to that cry-baby girl? You sorted that out? 

How you deal with this one? 

1) Learn her ways if you are planning a short term relationship.
2) Make her shed these roothna-manana tactics if you are planning a long term relationship. In other words, throw a bigger tantrum next time, and make her think you are that cute kid inside.
  jatin-phoenix posted Re:how do I decipher a girl? on 7 mnths ago

we have been frends for about 3 years.
next day in college we were the same as it used to be....did not talk about what happened..
she's not my girlfrend. 

  BladeRunner posted Re:how do I decipher a girl? on 7 mnths ago
maybe she is your GF and you just don't know it yet. Ask her 
  jatin-phoenix posted Re:how do I decipher a girl? on 7 mnths ago
blade m sure its not like that.
shes a damn good friend and i'll just keep it that way.
  RS-K posted Re:how do I decipher a girl? on 7 mnths ago
bladey, can't you see? He is the future CH Bladerunner?
  jatin-phoenix posted Re:how do I decipher a girl? on 7 mnths ago
was that a compliment RS?

  BladeRunner posted Re:how do I decipher a girl? on 7 mnths ago
 when did I have such friends/girlfriends? 
And more importantly, how do you know about that? 
  RS-K posted Re:how do I decipher a girl? on 7 mnths ago

guesswork.

  Mr. T posted Re:how do I decipher a girl? on 7 mnths ago
..oh yeah have heard a lot about your guessing abilities ;)







  Uppili posted Re:how do I decipher a girl? on 7 mnths ago
Don't worry... She is not going anywhere and won't stop talking to you. YOuwill be like this for quite a long time. She could well become a GF suddenly one day - never rule that out - that is, if both of you are not married. Forget that.... she can STILL become your GF

  RS-K posted Re:how do I decipher a girl? on 7 mnths ago

In that case, just forget it. Continue to be confused.

  Uppili posted Re:how do I decipher a girl? on 7 mnths ago
Let us forget that girl business.

How was your commute today ? ....:)  No ranting or venting ?
  aa posted Re:how do I decipher a girl? on 7 mnths ago
No ranting or venting ?

..or farting?

  RS-K posted Re:how do I decipher a girl? on 7 mnths ago
am working from home. Had to pick up daughter from school in the afternoon, hence decided to WFH whole day instead of going to work for half day and commute half day.









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