finding a good pretty wife

started by Sabhya Purush 7 mnths ago
how to find a good and good looking wife,who can be very supportive and be a good hindu wife.Is it neccessary that guy should be equally good looking then and then only he can get a good looking wife.I am highly distressed..I am unable to find a good looking young enough wife.I just turned 31 ..i am only getting proposals from women are above 29..and I am not liking any of them.Why do these women who are old.show interest in my profile.Nothing wrong in being 29 or 31..just that i don;t like older women.I don't belive in compramise.Tough job i suppose.The last thing i would do is marry a ugly or bad looking girl.No matter how caring or a good wife she might be.Seems like i will remain unmarried after all.

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  kripamaya posted Re:finding a good pretty wife on 1 month ago
Your demands are unreasonable. Put the shoes on the other feet, a wonam who wants the same demands as you do.  Remember the phrase: "All that glitters is not gold."  If you want a loving, caring, faithful partner, then be one yourself.  Look for a humble, average looking female.  She will bring you more joy than a model show piece.

  peacegazer posted Re:finding a good pretty wife on 1 month ago
good looks are important but make sure she has a nice personality to go with it.  pure good looks = high maintenance and nagging 24/7.  looks wont hold so much importance at that time.

easy going is more imp.

  kripamaya posted Re:finding a good pretty wife on 3 mnths ago
Pretty form the outside physical features, or inside the soul?
  JBF posted Re:finding a good pretty wife on 1 month ago
outer pretty ness is enough to some extent..the inner devil can be controlled by some manly rituals.


  JBF posted Re:finding a good pretty wife on 3 mnths ago
am also not finding a pretty wife.

  manhere posted Re:finding a good pretty wife on 3 mnths ago
How to find a good and good looking wife or for that matter anything that is good pretty much depends on how good you are in finding the good in others.

But for the life of me I cannot understand why I got a good wife. I leave my smelly socks around, waist of my one week old pants dont fit me,  I can never find my tooth brushes, my wife always sniffs in the air and says whats this funny smell am gettin and so on. But with all these, I still cannot stop finding good in her.

  (va-gal) posted Re:finding a good pretty wife on 5 mnths ago
Diary Of a Young Pretty Wife

Monday:
Now home from honeymoon and settled in our new home.
It's fun to cook for Tim. Today I made an angel food cake and the recipe said, "beat 12 eggs separately." Well, I didn't have enough bowls to do that, so I had to borrow 12 bowls to beat the eggs in. The cake turned out fine though.


Tuesday:
We wanted a fruit salad for supper. The recipe said, "serve without dressing." So I didn't dress. But Tim happened to bring a friend home for supper that night. They both looked so startled when I served them, I think it was the salad.

Wednesday:
I decided to serve rice and found a recipe which said, "wash thoroughly before steaming the rice." So I heated some water and took a bath before steaming the rice. Sounded kinda silly in the middle of the day. I can't say it improved the rice anyhow.

Thursday:
Today Tim asked for salad again. I tried a new recipe. 
It said, prepare ingredients, then toss on a bed of lettuce one hour before serving." I hunted all over the place for a garden and when I got one, I tossed my salad into the bed of lettuce and stood over there for over one hour so the dog would not take it. Tim came over and asked if I felt all right.I wonder why? He must be stressed at work, I'll try to be supportive.

Friday:
Today I found an easy recipe for cookies. It said, "put all ingredients in a bowl and beat it." Beat it I did,to my mum's place. There must have been something wrong with the recipe, because when I came back home again, it looked the same as when I left it.


Saturday:
Tim went shopping today and brought home a chicken. He asked me to dress it for Sunday. I'm sure I don't know how hens dress for Sunday. I never noticed back on the farm, but I found an old doll dress and it's little cute shoes. I thought the hen looked really cute. When Tim saw it, he started counting to ten. Either he was really
stressed because of his work, or he wanted the chicken to dance.
  
When I asked him what was wrong he started crying and shouting out "why me? why me ?" Hmmm....It must be his job.

  Recycled Soul posted Re:finding a good pretty wife on 5 mnths ago

Gone are the days when 5-10 years difference was acceptable.. Now its just plus minus 2 years. The requirements cannot be one way. It is important that the ladies feel you are compatible & handsome too. Jaise tum sapne dekh rahe ho ki sundar biwi mile..waise woh bhi sapne dekh rahe hain ki sundar pati mile. 

:)


  jatin-phoenix posted Re:finding a good pretty wife on 5 mnths ago

why would the 23 or 24 years old girls want an aged man like you.?

  Currer Bell posted Re:finding a good pretty wife on 5 mnths ago
That's a good point! I remember at 22 being shocked when I was introduced to a 26 year old. If you were 30, you were another generation, IMO. 

BTW - this is a post from 2 months ago -- why are people responding to this??
  Amerasian posted Re:finding a good pretty wife on 5 mnths ago
"I remember at 22 being shocked when I was introduced to a 26 year old."

LOL.....I suppose you have never seen a 30+ man marrying a 22 yr. old woman or 30+ woman marrying a 22 yr. man. I have seen age difference of 15 yrs. and even 20 yrs. Have you heard the say, "love is blind". Even in cases of arranged marriage, the age difference is not necessarily minimal (1-3 yrs.).
  Currer Bell posted Re:finding a good pretty wife on 5 mnths ago

Yeah, I know people have significant age differences.. to each his/her own. 
I'm just saying how it was from my POV at the time. I looked at 25 as this borderline age.



  Impedimenta posted Re:finding a good pretty wife on 5 mnths ago
boredom. joblessness. restlessness. pick, lady pick. CB, save me from this meeting, please.



  Marathi_Manus posted Re:finding a good pretty wife on 5 mnths ago
It is too late man,I would suggest remaining unmarried all your life than comparmising.Compramise is a defeat.Pay for good looking girls man,keep the keeps.Men have that adhvantage.Do not settle for less.
  Gatita posted Re:finding a good pretty wife on 5 mnths ago
You must not be very good looking if you have to pay for good looking girl?
 
What an embarrassment to post that on sulekha… hmmm

  Amerasian posted Re: finding a good pretty wife on 5 mnths ago
"It is too late man,I would suggest remaining unmarried all your life than comparmising.Compramise is a defeat.Pay for good looking girls man,keep the keeps.Men have that adhvantage.Do not settle for less."

It's never too late. Well...may be if you are bedridden and have just a few years of life left. 
Compromise--NOT Compramise or comparmising.  Advantage--NOT adhvantage
The girls you pay for can give you STDs. It is better to stick with the 'nice gals'.
  Impedimenta posted Re: finding a good pretty wife on 5 mnths ago
hey
pliss describe the term "nice gal" in less than 25 words.

thanks.
impy
  Amerasian posted Re: finding a good pretty wife on 5 mnths ago
A nice gal: loving and caring; good-hearted but not necessarily good looking; clean in all aspects of life especially her own body; pleasant demeanor (graceful); submissive to her man (NOT subservient); dresses modestly; is not flirtatious with other men; healthy & physically fit. 

Optional attributes: ability to play piano; bharata natyam; ability to speak in telugu and english.:)
  Gatita posted Re: finding a good pretty wife on 5 mnths ago
THE PERFECT WIFE

 

 

I have a perfect girl for you here
 
You can be very happy with the type of girl you want there is no flavor to her absolutely none
 
No attitude
No courage
No sexiness
No excuses
No speeches
No moaning
No crying
No sweating
No jumping
No running
No exercise
No feeling!!!!
 
JESUS!
  Amerasian posted Re: [Gatita] finding a good pretty wife on 5 mnths ago

I am not the one who is looking for good girl you knuckle head--it's the original poster (Sabhya Purush).

You signed off with the word "Jesus". Does it mean you are a christian?



  Impedimenta posted Re: finding a good pretty wife on 5 mnths ago
"A nice gal: loving and caring; good-hearted but not necessarily good looking; clean in all aspects of life especially her own body;"

rest cut off. too many words. revise and resubmit. i will take MD's definition until then. thank u MD. may god bless you.

  RS-K posted Re: finding a good pretty wife on 5 mnths ago
How about 'nice man'?


  Merlot Daruwala posted Re: finding a good pretty wife on 5 mnths ago
can be defined in six birds: burjin and not bearing short shorts.

  RS-K posted Re: finding a good pretty wife {Imp} on 5 mnths ago
Still in the meeting?
  Impedimenta posted Re: finding a good pretty wife {Imp} on 5 mnths ago
..ya ..soooooooooooo sleepy. did not get any sleep yesterday night and i can't stand to drink the coffee here.
  RS-K posted Re: finding a good pretty wife {Imp} on 5 mnths ago
kinda same here.. was also not well. WFH today. Wrapped in a blanket, still chilly.
  Impedimenta posted Re: finding a good pretty wife {Imp} on 5 mnths ago
oh, i am well. my fil is sick. hope u feel better.
  RS-K posted Re: finding a good pretty wife {Imp} on 5 mnths ago

D'uh. sulekha cut my words. Should have been

"kinda same here.. Did not sleep and was also not well. "

Hope your fil is fine.









  Amerasian posted Re:finding a good pretty wife on 5 mnths ago

You started to look for a wife very late. There are a lot of 31-yr. old men with children in middle school. Anyway, do not despair, it's not too late. If you are only getting proposals from 29+ women, then you are looking in the wrong places. There would be nothing wrong with marrying 29-32 yr. old women. You should be able to find someone 5+ yrs. younger than you. It may take you a few months or 1-2 years. I have seen 35+ guys marry 20+ gals. Just be patient. Don't be too anxious. And don't place too much emphasis on looks. A friend of my wife used to be slim and very pretty before she got married. But in the last 10 years, after having two children she became a 200 lb. unattractive woman. Explore all the avenues. Don't hesitate to seek help from friends and relatives. Good luck to you.

Just imagine what would have happened if all women wanted to marry only good looking men.

Heidi Klum Seal


  Kris posted Re:finding a good pretty wife on 5 mnths ago
3 words " mail order bride"- non english speakers preferred- that way, no arguments..:)

  BladeRunner posted Re:finding a good pretty wife on 5 mnths ago
try one of those russian mail order brides. You can also convert her to hinduism in the long run

  Marathi_Manus posted Re:finding a good pretty wife on 7 mnths ago

i can understand my friend..women are getting much uglier now a days..i would suggest going to india and marry a nice tall beautiful healthy hindu girl.you will find one....this shaadi.com and all sites are full of self centred bitches.leave those sites..these women enjoy masturbation..mental and physical both.Leave those kultas aside..find a nice patni  in india..

hari om..remember you are the purusha...you have the potential to re produce..the nari is just the cucumb..these 29+ women don;t realize that they are loosing fertility.and chances will be high that they will produce some mongol baby or retarded baby..

  smitasamm posted Re:finding a good pretty wife on 5 mnths ago
This is such a conceited attitude, seems that even average/unattractive guys hold such a high opinion of themselves feeling they deserve only young and beautiful partners.  Often this is not possible, and its a pity that values descend to this.  Guys also fail to realise their own fertility begins to decline and jaded sperms also contribute to forming retards - male menopause can begin as early as 40, so in comparison to a woman who menopauses around 50+ guy has a very short virile period before he begins to suffer impotency.  This is why there is an increasing interest from women to find guys 5 to 10 years younger in order to retain a decent sex relationship with their partner, and because many women look better longer in their lives they are able to do this.
  Uppili posted Re:finding a good pretty wife on 5 mnths ago
Boy.... you are out to scare us all at this early morning time. 

Don't they understand that opposites attract? To get a Good-looking wife, men need to look bad. preferably 4' 10 and 280 #. then there is hope for Ms. Universe...or at least an Ex-Ms. Universe.

Now, what is this male menopause thing that you are throwing around? 10 years younger men ?  Yeah rite... I know of a 85 yr old woman who has a 75 yr old "BF"... Now that explains...


  smitasamm posted Re:finding a good pretty wife on 5 mnths ago
Hi Uppili, I didn't mean to scare everybody, (went back to bed),  But the guy above me said some pretty mean things!

However I doubt that all average/unattractive guys have such grand illusions around themselves.

Where I live the shift is definately as I described, my next door neighbours are 80 something woman, her husband still has black in his hair and black moustache.  There are many couples around with older women and even older women say 45 - 55 with 26yr old somethings, and surprisingly the boys are often quite attractive.  Seems once the man reaches his menopause, now the women don't wish to lose out on sex life and soon change horses.




  jatin-phoenix posted Re:finding a good pretty wife on 7 mnths ago

first of all, tension mat le yaar...ladhki hi toh hai..mil jaegi..

try searching at places where u know u might be able to meet girls like her...
like if i had to find a girl i'd have first visited reading cafes regularly, then may be theatre wrkshops.
put on your thinking cap buddy, no point cribbing y u did not marry earlier...

and another thing ..it does seem to me that u'r obsessed with having a very beautiful girl...
dekh liya na salmaan and vivek bhai ka kya hua...
and if u'r marrying a girl just because shes beautiful..what would u do when shes about 45...divorce her and marry another younger beautiful girl who does not has that much wrinkles...haan??

my frend for how long can u stare at a beautiful face??...ultimately what matters is what kind of human being she is...

  Gatita posted Re:finding a good pretty wife on 5 mnths ago
 
+ Cute, pretty beautiful girls have one thing in COMMON THEY KNOW IT*

prefer the same unless there is love then one can sacrifice
 
All girls want their “Baby Girl” to be gorgeous which that crown is hold by a few women now a days
So what do you expect a girl whom takes on a gene pole of an attractive male or non-attractive lets be REALISTIC HERE!
 
Cute want to be gorgeous
Pretty girls want to be cute
Beautiful girls want to be pretty
And gorgeous girls want MONEY
 
WAKE UP!
 
And smell the silicone


  madhavajja posted Re:finding a good pretty wife on 7 mnths ago
                                                 SULEKHA FORUM .. BETA
      
Enough is enough !
    Brihadaranyaka Upanishad says : "Verily not for the sake of the husband is the husband loved, but he is loved for the sake of the Self, which in its true nature is one with the Supreme Self. Verily, not for the sake of the wife is the wife loved, but she is loved for the sake of the Self . Verily, not for the sake of the sons, are the sons loved, but they are loved for the sake of the Self. Verily, not for the sake of the wealth, is the wealth loved, but it is loved for the sake of the Self ". Thus continuing,  Rishi Yajnavalkya, instructs his wife, Maitreyi that nothing in this world is loved for its own sake but for the sake of the Self .
                 Taking up the point that a wife's love is not for her husband's sake but for her own , Vidyaranya, Pontiff of the Sringeri Mutt ( 1377 to 1386  C.E.) , explains that similarly the husband's love is also for his own satisfaction and not for hers. Thus. even in the mutual love between husband and wife, the incentive is one's own desire for happiness.
            ......... now , what is the point in continuing this topic any further  ......I fail to understand !!!!!!!!!!!!!

         madhavajja

  sukhi-jiwan posted Re:finding a good pretty wife on 7 mnths ago
I think you are going to remain unmarried.

  lotuspetals posted Re:finding a good pretty wife on 7 mnths ago
Beauty is skin deep,if ur coming from a good family then select a lady coming from good family.can you give guarentee that you would be a good husband.Every body wants good looking woman,than we cant blame australians! sorry for this remark.Its indian mentality of indian men,sorry,but many ladies marry late ,some times to support their parents.Many boys go away to another countries forgetting their responsibilities29 or 40 is not old.You should have married at age of 25.Sorry,but you have made wrong remarks against those ladies,is totally wrong,in my opinion!

  eblitz posted Re:finding a good pretty wife on 7 mnths ago
Hey buddy, look around,, just find a pretty woman to ur heart's liking and thats it.. All u need would be confidence and patience... also some money too.. be sincere and the woman is urs... women like confidence.... it worked for me.. thats what they (4) told me.. u can have any1 u want... all the best....
  Uppili posted Re:finding a good pretty wife on 7 mnths ago
Oh yeah..sure...

lemme look around... who should I pick...? 

Ini mini miny mo (geez  not MO.)

may be THAT ONE...;)
  SUL001 posted Re:finding a good pretty wife on 5 mnths ago
Or 

Teeny Weeny Whiny HO !

Just go for some attraction (physical) and emotional/mental compatibility. You have to find 1 or both of these qualities unless you want what I said above. You get beauty but you "might" also get that.


  Da UnderTaker711 posted Re:finding a good pretty wife on 7 mnths ago
what bullsh*t. your pep talk sounds like one of those get-rich-by-buying-my-book-or-attending-my-overpriced-instructional-seminar deals. look around, find a pretty women and thats' it huh? how the f*ck would he get her to marry him after he finds her, einstein? where's the directions from a to b? throwing around some goofy statements dont make good advise. capiche (or kapish as the resident heart patient cum tamil kavi with irritable bowel syndrome would call it)??