Mind - Blowing Reply by an Indian Man to a White Woman

started by Student of VIHE 3 mnths ago

It seems that an article was written to a well-founded magazine, by an English woman who requested a response from Indian men. I'm so glad she got what she asked for (and more)!!!


This letter was written in response to the following article:


Dear Editor:


I'm sorry but I would like to challenge some of your Indian male readers. I am a White female who is engaged to an Indian male, good-looking, educated and loving. I just don't understand a lot of Indian female's attitudes about our relationship. My man decided he wanted me because the pickings
amongst Indian women were slim to none. As he said they were either too fat, too loud, too mean, too argumentative, too needy, too materialistic or carrying too much excess baggage. Before I became engaged, whenever I went out I was constantly approached by Indian men, willing to wine and dine me and give me the world If Indian women are so up in arms about us being with their men, why don't they look at themselves and make some changes. I am tired of the dirty looks I get and snide remarks when
we're out in public. I would like to hear from some Indian men about why we white women are so appealing and coveted by them. Bryant Gumbel just left his wife of 26 years for one of us. Charles Barkley, Scottie Pippen, the model Tyson Beckford, Montell Williams, Quincy Jones, James Earl Jones,
Harry Belafonte, Sydney Poitier, Kofi Anan, Cuba Gooding Jr., Don Cornelius,Berry Gordy, BillyBlanks, Larry Fishburne, Jesley Snipes...I could go on and on.

But,right now, I'm a little angry and that is why I wrote this so hurriedly. Don't be mad with us White women because so many of your men want us.


Get your acts together and learn from us and we may lead you to treat your
men better. If I'm wrong, Indian men, let me know.


Disgusted White Girl, Somewhere in VA.


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The Response:


Dear Editor:


I would like to respond to the letter written by A Disgusted White Girl.


Let me start by saying that I am a 28-year old Indian man. I studied from one of the most prestigious universities in Atlanta, Georgia with a Bachelor of Arts Degree in Business Management. I have a good job at a major corporation and have recently purchased a house. So, I consider myself to be among the ranks of successful Non-White men. I will not use my precious time to slander white people. I just want to set the record straight of why Indian men date white women.


Back in the day, one of the biggest reasons why Indian men dated white women was because they were considered easy. The Indian girls in my neighborhood were raised traditionally. They were very strict about when they lost their virginity and who they lost it to. Because of our impatience to wait, brothers would look for someone who would give it up easy without too much hassle. So, they turned to the white girls. Nowadays, in my opinion, a lot of Indian males date white women because they are
docile and easy to control. A lot of Indian men, because of insecurities, fears, and overall weaknesses, have become intimidated by the strength of our Indian women. We are afraid that our woman will be more successful than us, make more money than us, drive nicer cars and own bigger houses. Because of this fear, many Indian men look for a more docile woman. Someone we can control. I have talked to  numerous Indian men and they continuously comment on how easy it is to control and walk over their white women.

I just want to set the record straight. I want A Disgusted White Girl to know that not all successful Indian men date white women. Non-Whites like Ahmad Rashad, Denzel Washington, Michael Jordan, Morris Chestn! ut,Will Smith, Blair Underwood, Kenneth 'Babyface' Edmonds, Samuel L. Jackson, and
Chris Rock all married strong Non-White women. And, to flip the script, there are numerous white men, in and out of the spot light, who openly or secretly desire Non-White women over white women. Ted Danson, Robert DeNiro, and David Bowie to name a few. I just don't want the 'Disgusted
White Girl' to be misinformed.


Stop thinking that because you are white that you are some type of goddess. Remember, when Non-White Egyptian Queens like Hatsepshut and Nitorcris were ruling Dynasties and armies of men in Egypt, you were over in the caves of Europe eating raw meat and beating each other over the head with clubs.

Read your history! It was the Non-White woman that taught you how to cook and season your food. It was the Non-White woman that taught you how to raise your children. It was Non-White women who were breastfeeding and raising your babies during slavery. It is the Non-White woman that had to endure
watching their fathers, husbands, and children beaten, killed, and thrown in jail.


Indian women were born with two strikes against them: being Non-White and being a woman. And, through all this, Still They Rise!


It is because of the Indian women's strength, elegance, power, love and beauty that I could never date anyone except my Indian Queen. It is not just the outer beauty that captivates and draws me to them. It is not the fact that they come in all shapes, sizes, colours and shades that I love them. Their inner beauty is what I find most appealing about Indian women.

Their strong spirit, loving and nurturing souls, their integrity, their ability to overcome great obstacles, their willingness to stand for what they believe in, and their determination to succeed and reach their highest potential while enduring great pain and suffering is why I have fallen in love with Indian women.


I honestly believe that your anger is geared more toward jealousy and envy than snotty looks. If this were not so, then why do you continuously go to tanning salons to darken your skin. If you are so proud to be white, then why don't you just be happy with your pale skin? Why do you continue to inject your lips, hips, and breasts with unnatural and dangerous substances so you can look fuller and more voluptuous? I think that your anger is really a result of you wanting to have what the Non-White woman has.


BOTTOM LINE: If I were looking for a docile woman, someone I can walk over and control, I would give you a call. But, unfortunately, I am looking for a Virtuous Woman. Someone that can be a good wife and mother to my children. Someone who can be my best friend and understand my struggles.

I am looking for a soul mate and; unfortunately, you do not and CANNOT fit the bill.


No offense taken, none given.
Signed,
Indian Royalty.

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  Iwanttoknowmore posted Re:Mind - Blowing Reply by an Indian Man to a White Woman on 3 mnths ago
can i vomit now?

this is as old as ice cream story

...

its all about what the man is willing to give to a girl comes in many shapes and sizes is called

R. E. S. P. E. C. T

not money or sex

thanks 

come again *
what you want what you need I got it LOL!

  Some Profile posted Re:Mind - Blowing Reply by an Indian Man to a White Woman on 3 mnths ago
This is older than the Internet. worse, this was supposedly about blacks and whites. not about Indians and whites at all.

wish I could go back to the time when this was still new...! :(
  Impedimenta posted Re:Mind - Blowing Reply by an Indian Man to a White Woman on 3 mnths ago
why?
  Some Profile posted Re:Mind - Blowing Reply by an Indian Man to a White Woman on 3 mnths ago
that was a time when I was minus a few years, a few heartbreaks, a few mistakes and a few experiences I'd have rather not had.
  Impedimenta posted Re:Mind - Blowing Reply by an Indian Man to a White Woman on 3 mnths ago
tell tell..more..please. i am  bored. 




  manoj eagle posted Re:Mind - Blowing Reply by an Indian Man to a White Woman on 3 mnths ago

I don't agree that reply is mind blowing..... it is one sided.

Both white women and non-white women have beauty, you can find soul mate in both.

It depends upon your eyes and your choice.

If you like white its your choice, if you like black its your choice, if you like brown its your choice.... its just question of choice.

about history.... dear we are talking about today, why go in history to prove your point. Past is past, talk about present that's what matters most. Today.


  deep purple posted Re:Mind - this white woman is a teenager? on 3 mnths ago
with time, one must realize that life does not revolve around BF, GF, spouse.
  Uppili posted Re:Mind - this white woman is a teenager? on 3 mnths ago
Sure...they will as soon as they find another BF, GF, or spouse.


  Queen Bee posted Re:Mind - Blowing Reply by an Indian Man to a White Woman on 3 mnths ago
the second arguement looses ground because it is camouflaging the reality. There is absolutely no proof that indian women are more beautiful, with inner strength blah blah...the reasons he gave were in line with history. why indian men went after white men bec indian men were difficult to get? overlooking the fact that white women are more beautiful than indian men. and indian men do go after beauty...and the second arguement als is in line with history...with queens/caves etc. it absolutely doesnt proove that white women are weak and are doormats. indian men would prefer white women for the sole reason that she is more beautiful. soulmate..yea right.?

  Vivek posted Re:Mind - Blowing Reply by an Indian Man to a White Woman on 3 mnths ago
I don't despise any woman, though I'm an equal opportunity hater. :) The clan in essence, whether it is black, white, yellow or brown can get equally dangerous at different times. The "woman unplugged" thing has not been invented yet, so the specie with a shrill is equally potent in all colours.
  Maria S posted Re:Mind - Woman on 3 mnths ago
"I don't despise any woman, though I'm an equal opportunity hater. :) The clan in essence, whether it is black, white, yellow or brown can get equally dangerous at different times. The "woman unplugged" thing has not been invented yet, so the specie with a shrill is equally potent in all colours."


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Goodness..."hater", "dangerous" "potent"...interesting choice of descriptive words!
 In other words, you can't enough of us or live without us:-)

Call me naive..what's "woman unplugged thing?"

M




  Vivek posted Re:Mind - Woman on 3 mnths ago
Goodness..."hater", "dangerous" "potent"...interesting choice of descriptive words!

Maria, whenever I see such posts, I nod my head in disbelief. How naive are these men, thinking that they know women. They make sweeping statements about certain colour women and think they know how that particular colour women behave. I think I now believe in once married, twice shy. But before that I have said "OUCH, that hurts" in so many different languages that I can't brand women in colour, shape or size. :) Women are off course women first.

In other words, you can't enough of us or live without us:-)

Alas! Only if we possibly can, the world will be such a peaceful place to live. PARADISE!

Call me naive..what's "woman unplugged thing?"

Does anyone ever know what women want? Even He hasn't figured that out yet.



  -sandilya. posted Re:Mind - Blowing Reply by an Indian Man to a White Woman on 3 mnths ago
The most brilliant on the CH will suggest that there isn't enough statistical evidence to support the Indian man or the white woman in this story.  The white woman has to have experience with at least n=6 men in each racial category and the Indian man has to do the same with women.  When they both complete this study they should come back and report the results to an objective CHer (usually a brilliant person) who will advise who they should live with.   
  carvaka posted Re:Mind - Blowing Reply by an Indian Man to a White Woman on 3 mnths ago
> The most brilliant on the CH will suggest that there isn't enough statistical evidence to support the Indian man or the
> white woman in this story.


This post illustrates a classic p-sat trait: accept the premises of anything, as long as you can be Suryakantham! The so-called story is all about black men and women, and there is no Indian man in it except someone who felt thoroughly neglected by the black-white fights and decided to imagine a white woman fighting Indian women to have him and give her an imaginary response.

  Propagandhi12 posted Re:Mind - Blowing Reply by an Indian Man to a White Woman on 3 mnths ago
kanthamgaaru, tamaru moodintiki kaani raaru anukonnanu? appude darshanam iccharu?
  -sandilya. posted Re:Mind - Blowing Reply by an Indian Man to a White Woman on 3 mnths ago
Pointu Emitante, asalu vishayaanni marchi pOyi, mana medhaavulu, statistics, evidence, ani anavasaramaina vaatilOki veltaaru (thama pratibha ni velladinchadaaniki).  MEdhaavulante gurthukocchindi - Ramadas ministaru gaa chEsevidhaanamlo intloguudaa pravartisthe aa pellAm elaa bratukutundo EmO!  Kuuchipoodi bhaagavatulu, keechaka vadha stage-play vEsevaallu.  Andulo, Keechakudini introduce chesetappudu, rakarakaalugaa vaadi brilliance ni stOtram chEstaaru.  Vaadu, kallu chEtulu atu itoo tipputoo, garvam gaa daance chEstuu oka goppa mEdhaavi laagaa nadusthoo vastaadu!



  Jauhari posted Re:Mind - Blowing Reply by an Indian Man to a White Woman on 3 mnths ago
Being a non-white is a strike against her???  What a laugh that is!  If you are a non-white, the government gives you everything you want!  Though I don't agree that being a non-white is a strike against her I do agree with the gist of the story.  Our bible tells us not to be unequal in marriage.  Mixed marriages is an insult to the creator.  God made us what we are and we shouldn't mess around with that.  Our offspring should be what God made us.  If I had my wishes, I would want to be a black women with a handicap.  If I had all that against me, I could become president!
  Vivek posted Re:Mind - Blowing Reply by an Indian Man to a White Woman on 3 mnths ago

  Amerasian posted Re:Mind - Blowing Reply by an Indian Man to a White Woman on 3 mnths ago
"Being a non-white is a strike against her?"
May be not. In the 80s being a black woman could not have been much fun. Right now, opportunities are unlimited for black women and women in general. Women have special privileges as far as starting new businesses are concerned. I know a black woman, who was given free office space at our county govt. office. She also had a mentor who had 30+ years of small business experience. 
I would have to disagree with your notion that "everything" is given to you if you are a non-white. The minorities have some special privileges, but they still have to work hard to succeed. Nothing is automatic as far as that goes. 
In DC area, the non-white owned small business do get special consideration from the Fed. govt. However, they still have to adhere to certain standards in deliver products and services. The american indians have speicial privileges too. They don't lose 'small business' status ever if their revenue goes over so many millions of $$. 

" Our bible tells us not to be unequal in marriage.  Mixed marriages is an insult to the creator. "
LOL...does it mean your 2nd wife is not going to be Indian? Actually, you are misinterpreting the bible verse. It has to do with believers vs non-believers--NOTHING TO DO WITH RACE. Let me help you:

"2 Corinthians 6:14 NIV
[ Do Not Be Yoked With Unbelievers ] Do not be yoked together with unbelievers. For what do righteousness and wickedness have in common? Or what fellowship can light have with darkness?"
Reference: http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=20080402163617AAHv2mt
 
  Jauhari posted Re:Mind - Blowing Reply by an Indian Man to a White Woman on 3 mnths ago
Our bible tells us not to be unequal in marriage.  Mixed marriages is an insult to the creator. "
LOL...does it mean your 2nd wife is not going to be Indian? Actually, you are misinterpreting the bible verse. It has to do with believers vs non-believers--NOTHING TO DO WITH RACE. Let me help you: 

Why didn't God make us all the same color then? 
  Amerasian posted Re:Mind - Blowing Reply by an Indian Man to a White Woman on 3 mnths ago
"Why didn't God make us all the same color then? "
That's a billion dollar question. Nobody knows the answer. I have read some theories about it but I am not convinced that environment was the factor in creation of different colored skins.

  gowser posted Re:Mind - Blowing Reply by an Indian Man to a White Woman on 3 mnths ago
God did not make us at all. 



  Propagandhi12 posted Re:Mind - Blowing Reply by an Indian Man to a White Woman on 3 mnths ago
yes. white women should seek big dark skinned wangs illicitly within the confines of their marriage (with tacit understanding with their small wanged white husbands). that's the best for all concerned.
  Jauhari posted Re:Mind - Blowing Reply by an Indian Man to a White Woman on 3 mnths ago
Hey Propagandhi, why do we white men need big penises when we control the entire world?  Haha!  You eat our crumbs dirt ball!  You can never be white so live with it fool!

  Jauhari posted Re:Mind - Blowing Reply by an Indian Man to a White Woman on 3 mnths ago
We White men don't need a big penis.  We white men have big fat wallets!  Something you'll never have.  So you lose on both counts!  No big penis and no big fat wallet.  Sorry.
  Vaidyanathan Pushpagiri posted Re:Mind - Blowing Reply by an Indian Man to a White Woman on 3 mnths ago
jauhari: 

and a stupid cunt where the mouth should be.

  Propagandhi12 posted Re:Mind - Blowing Reply by an Indian Man to a White Woman on 3 mnths ago
you say that as a white man cuts my grass, another one's fixing up my roof and a white woman cleans my house. strange how all the mexicans suddenly disappeared this year with all the immigration raids..am forced to employ lazy whites these days.

PS: I have 5 or so whites that report to me directly and a few more that report indirectly. damned affirmative action at this place I tell you. they almost always place at the lower end of the performance scale except for one.
  Jauhari posted Re:Mind - Blowing Reply by an Indian Man to a White Woman on 3 mnths ago
Well I see with all your other faults you're also a LIAR!  No White man would work for you.  And you would never hire a white man.  You are fixated on black men with big wangs.  If you had two nickles to rub together, you would hire a black man.  Of course, that would be after a penis inspection.  You certainly wouldn't want to hire a small penised black man.
  Propagandhi12 posted Re:Mind - Blowing Reply by an Indian Man to a White Woman on 3 mnths ago

when white chicks go for big dark skinned wangs and bitter, loser white men go after third world mailorder brides. that's why you're here arent you, joe harry? you want a dark skinned, subservient 3rd worlder to make you feel better. well, the one you've been after is avoiding you like you were a piece of dried up turd. must not be good for the ego eh? hence this lashing out that you do?

I actually feel bad for you. your parents didnt give you attention growing up. you lost what you feel is your rightful place at the bottomrung of white american society to immigrants and upwardly mobile blacks and others. your women ignore you. and you cant get any attention even from the ppl you consider to be beneath you. poor old joe harry...he's not able to handle his lowlife pimp job(competition from blacks I presume?), has a wife that bangs black dudes on the side, and he cant get attention from women even on a foreign website. must bring all those childhood traumas to bear, dont it? if only mommy held you when you were a kid. but on the plus side, you cant have that much longer to live anyway.

  Jauhari posted Re:Mind - Blowing Reply by an Indian Man to a White Woman on 3 mnths ago
It is a shame that you give India a bad name.  Most of the Indian men and women that I've met are great.  Some might have large penises and some may not.  I've never inquired or was interested.  That is certainly your interest though.  Look loser, you can never be white and you 'll never be a successful Indian man.  So curl up in a ball and die. 
  Propagandhi12 posted Re:Mind - Blowing Reply by an Indian Man to a White Woman on 3 mnths ago
rofl, you give up eh? all this woulda been avoided if mommy and daddy loved you. poor you. should my current lawn guy quit mowing my lawn, I'll give you a call.
  mf02 posted Re:Mind - Blowing Reply by an Indian Man to a White Woman on 3 mnths ago

Bawahaaha! There is this white guy doing my yard work as we speak for $25/ hour..








  Jauhari posted Re:Mind - Blowing Reply by an Indian Man to a White Woman on 3 mnths ago
There you go talking about your favorite foods again.  Why do you have big black wangs on your mind so much?
  Propagandhi12 posted Re:Mind - Blowing Reply by an Indian Man to a White Woman on 3 mnths ago

thats what you need to ask your wife during breakfast. *zingggggg*

PS: indian men have dark skinned wangs too.

  Jauhari posted Re:Mind - Blowing Reply by an Indian Man to a White Woman on 3 mnths ago

black men such as you have dark skinned penis for breakfast too.

  Propagandhi12 posted Re:Mind - Blowing Reply by an Indian Man to a White Woman on 3 mnths ago

are you saying you like to go for seconds after your wife? you guys get yourself a bi ghetto gangbanger or what?







  Uppili posted Re:Mind - Blowing Reply by an Indian Man to a White Woman on 3 mnths ago
To the Disgusted White woman:

Indian males do not despise Indian women at all. Not at all true. Except for a handful, all Indian males love to date docile white women but only want to marry white Indian women.  Indian women prove their equality and freedom of choice by marrying only white Indian men.

No offense taken, none given - would you like to go on a "date"?

Signed,

A True Indian.

  Propagandhi12 posted Re:Mind - Blowing Reply by an Indian Man to a White Woman on 3 mnths ago
what a bunch of retards replying to this troll (below). this was written in EARLY 90s by a white that was dating a negro. you numbnuts swallowed it whole.
  Currer Bell posted Re:Mind - Blowing Reply by an Indian Man to a White Woman on 3 mnths ago
I was gonna say the same thing -- this is really old!!! 
(And, it's an annoying one no less)

  Maria S posted Re:Ok DUT- Just a good morning to you! on 3 mnths ago


Please Sir!  
It was just part of the morning ritual of checking into Sulekha and making one's presence known..and saying hello to the bunch of smart cookies like you:)

You want a simple good morning? Ok...good morning dear DUT and ALL:)

Happy now?!

M

  Seva posted Re:Mind - Blowing Reply by an Indian Man to a White Woman on 3 mnths ago

If it was written in EARLY 90s and you knew about it, then how come you or no one else posted it on Sulekha?  That's height of irresponsibility, to sit  on a very interesting and useful info. and do nothing. It's nice someone  has now posted it here, most likely for the first time. 

  Propagandhi12 posted Re:Mind - Blowing Reply by an Indian Man to a White Woman on 3 mnths ago
what relevance does a negro banging a fa