when ther's a broken love-affair,the love's lost, when the two hearts break not only the two but four people suffer---
started by kalpita raj 3 mnths ago When a woman's husband is physically with her but his mind is thinking about some-one else adorinngly, recollecting the past involvements, broken love affairs and such emotions, then definatly a woman specially an emotional & sensitive woman finds surely "a miss" somewhere in their relationship; especially when they are close.Wise woman pretends as if she'sn't aware of that& puts a mask of calmness or happiness but inside deep in her heart she's unhappy somewhere. According to me cheating upon means not only carrying off the physical realtionship outside the marriage but also thinking of other woman or your 'long-lost love' still in the presence of your woman.One of my writer friends told me a very beautiful statement once,"A man can have plenty affairs but still can be a honest or one-woman man if he's physically,emotionally &solely i.e. totally involved with the same woman which he's presently carrying off. Sleeping with some person while thinking about the another person can be definatly called cheating." and I agree with him.
I think when a love's lost or when your loved one gets married with another, not only the "two"but "four' lives suffer. The two who break off and the two who are their respective partners.Generally women forget about their past relationships and live happily in the present but the men(except some hon. handful ones) constantly keep thinking about their old lady love . In their minds they keep comparing the both, the past and present girl friend. Some times they try to search the similarities & qualities of the past girlfriend in their present girlfriend which results into making their own selves unhappy. Sometimes some men also secretly wish that their present lady love should act/behave exactly like the past one, which is just impossible.This again causes nothing but the bitterness or pain. Their minds unregister the hurt or the pain which they cause by their behaviour such as addressing their present girlfriend /wife by their past one's name, talking great or emotional about their past girlfriend, discussing the details about their previous love story amongst friends etc.I think many times many men are sensitive towards their own feelings, emotions and are totally indifferent towards their partner's.
Anyway. I think the only way to become happy is to draw a line on your past and look forward contently at your near future.It's always good to live in the present.
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I think when a love's lost or when your loved one gets married with another, not only the "two"but "four' lives suffer. The two who break off and the two who are their respective partners.Generally women forget about their past relationships and live happily in the present but the men(except some hon. handful ones) constantly keep thinking about their old lady love . In their minds they keep comparing the both, the past and present girl friend. Some times they try to search the similarities & qualities of the past girlfriend in their present girlfriend which results into making their own selves unhappy. Sometimes some men also secretly wish that their present lady love should act/behave exactly like the past one, which is just impossible.This again causes nothing but the bitterness or pain. Their minds unregister the hurt or the pain which they cause by their behaviour such as addressing their present girlfriend /wife by their past one's name, talking great or emotional about their past girlfriend, discussing the details about their previous love story amongst friends etc.I think many times many men are sensitive towards their own feelings, emotions and are totally indifferent towards their partner's.
Anyway. I think the only way to become happy is to draw a line on your past and look forward contently at your near future.It's always good to live in the present.
What you'd like to say---when ther's a broken love-affair,the love's lost, when the two hearts break not only the two but four people suffer---