hi guys and gals...juss explain

started by scribblingpad 2 weeks ago
When gals talk to guys over fone, i nudge them and ask what it was all abou. It seems they ask- what are u wearing, what is the colour of the hair band, what is the colour of ur dress, what is the colour of ur blouse... But after dudes become hubbies, they dont even notice even if u are in the most alluring outfits. why?Any  pscyological reasons at play?

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  JBF posted Re:hi guys and gals...juss explain on 7 days ago
i am the exception to such kinds and like.

i do notice and appreciate women dressed up adequately.

can i ask you something?why do i date ugly women sometimes?do you think i am just lonely and date whomsoever?
  Gatita posted Re:hi guys and gals...juss explain on 7 days ago
here good song for you to sing to her

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-PWunLT7Wgw

  Gatita posted Re:hi guys and gals...juss explain on 7 days ago
that is good JBF that is what you need to do to your wife tell her when she is good and when she is also bad

:) always tell her she is looking good otherwise ouch! 

How are you? 
  JBF posted Re:hi guys and gals...juss explain on 6 days ago
am fine gatito..

how are you?



  deep purple posted Re:hi guys and gals...juss explain on 2 weeks ago
such talk is indication of the desire to see the person in person.
  deep purple posted Re:hi guys and gals...juss explain on 2 weeks ago
after marriage - one talks of mental health - how was ur day? did chunnu give u trouble at doctor's office? was it difficult to drive thru the snow? why dint u just take off work? did munnu eat enough? why are u still awake, isnt it late? and so on. it graduates from mere dress to more important. for physical - i personally say - keep it shaved for i will return Friday evening.
  Gatita posted Re:hi guys and gals...juss explain on 7 days ago
it gets bored... after a while that is why if you are of sparks and special things u can spice it up if you marry into a type that is hard to change hmmm well options decrease but if you marry a type that can change chances increase for better

like change hair color, cut hair, excercise, 90210 if needed, tan, blonde, brunnete, red hair, the back to black, brown light, tan darker tan, full lips, less lips, there are so many ways a right girl can look different in a marraige make is happen*

or so my friend says ouch
  deep purple posted Re:hi guys and gals...juss explain on 7 days ago

unmarried often fail to imagine life beyond self and partner. life is not such.


  Gatita posted Re:hi guys and gals...juss explain on 7 days ago
look at madonna for example

I need a guy who understands this... evolution of this amazing woman but yet see that there is bad and good in anything and evrything OUCH!

DIFFERENT?
  Jauhari posted Re:hi guys and gals...juss explain on 7 days ago
Gatita-The secret is for the husband to treat the wife like an angel in the kitchen and devil in the bedroom!!!!!


  Jauhari posted Re:hi guys and gals...juss explain on 7 days ago
You can't allow your marriage to get boring.  You've got to continue to date your spouse.  A couple MUST have date night every week!  Don't skip date nights.  That gives you a chance to dress up and go out on the town.  You've got to get out of the routine of the work week.  Take your wife or hubby out somewhere.  Be creative and marriage stays fresh and fun.




  Vaidyanathan Pushpagiri posted Re:hi guys and gals...juss explain on 2 weeks ago

 scribblingpad:

Paartha Gnyapakam. 

In other words, the hubby can see through the most alluring outfits as to what it hides beneath.  So why add to the cornucopia of Lies? 

Regards. 
Rajaputhran.

 

  scribblingpad posted Re:hi guys and gals( for VP) on 2 weeks ago
okaayyyy, but why they ever ask about clothes? Is it related to sex/fun/pun/ joke/timepass/ or  what?


  balakdas posted Re:hi guys and gals...juss explain on 2 weeks ago
its directly related to sex.  talk makes sense only between unmarried people.  because the air is always filled with the possibility of sex, which may not happen :)  this is what drives the conversation.

between married couples, talk make no sense whatsoever!  they should just do it.  talk will only create problems. marriage survives as long as the couple know when to shut their mouths.



  Uppili posted Re:hi guys and gals...juss explain on 2 weeks ago
>> its directly related to sex.  talk makes sense only between unmarried people.  because the air is always filled with the possibility of sex, which may not happen :)  this is what drives the conversation.

between married couples, talk make no sense whatsoever!  ,s>they should just do it. There is simply no possibility in the air and actually it is all vacuum.  talk will only create problems. marriage survives as long as the couple know when to shut their mouths.

**FIXED**
  balakdas posted Re:hi guys and gals...juss explain on 2 weeks ago
hehe.. i don't agree :)  sex is what makes two strangers live togather and bear with each other's ideosynchrosies. 



  Uppili posted Re:hi guys and gals...juss explain on 2 weeks ago
Yes... there is a reason. Before marriage Girls want to wear what the "guy" wants her to wear. After marriage, the wife wants to wear what she wants to. so the hubby cannot stand the sight of that ugly dress and don't notice (no matter how alluring SHE might think the outfit is)..

yEn vazhi Thaneeee vazhi.....;)
  RS-K posted Re:hi guys and gals...juss explain on 2 weeks ago
they can already 'see' what she is wearing? Why ask? 

My husband cares for my clothes, only when I going to his family gatherings or office parties. Other days, he is 'ok' with everything.


  RS-K posted Re:hi guys and gals...juss explain on 2 weeks ago

ghar ki murgi daal barabar.

I got no bhaav even before the marriage. I got chased till I said 'yes'. After that it was me chasing him. 

To be honest, don't remember DH asking me what I am wearing over phone for our entire 4 year dating peoriod. Or maybe I blabbered all before he could say hi. 

*shrug*

  aa posted Re:hi guys and gals...juss explain on 2 weeks ago
..or maybe he knew you were not wearing anything...
  RS-K posted Re:hi guys and gals...juss explain on 2 weeks ago



I lived with my parents then. In a typical Indian houshold. Kuchh bhi.




  Merlot Daruwala posted Re:hi guys and gals...juss explain on 2 weeks ago
>> It seems they ask- what are u wearing

Does this mean no guy ever asked you what u were wearing?
  scribblingpad posted Re:hi guys and gals...juss explain on 2 weeks ago
heyyy...tha means, iam BFless
  Vaidyanathan Pushpagiri posted Re:hi guys and gals...juss explain on 2 weeks ago

scribblingpad:

Did you not mention a few post back that I am your BF?  Then why this volte face now? Is it because I did not ask you what is your attire of the day? 

Cheppu, Sundari, Cheppu? 

Regards. 
Rajaputhran.


  Merlot Daruwala posted Re:hi guys and gals...juss explain on 2 weeks ago
Ok then, what are you wearing?
  scribblingpad posted Re:hi guys and gals...juss explain on 2 weeks ago
hohoo..... u wanna make up for the absence of BF from long distance,kya?Don't worry!!!u dont need to...iam not anxious at all





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