
It is easy.
one makes thousands of decisions every day. you may be faced with a choice about what to eat? chewing gum, juice, Berger, roti etc. your mind will start telling you (based on its memory of previous pleasurable actions) that ras malayi would be good! - quite often we are simply swayed by our mind. But if we are MINDFUL, we ask ourselves the question what should I eat for well being of my body, mind and soul? you will automatically get a message directly from your soul- drink orange juice or something. This message is different for different circumstances, times and conditions but it is from all knowing soul. All other messages emerging from Chitta are memory, prejudice, laziness based garble, they are not Knowledge based at all.
This method of determining Swadharma was recommended by Natraja Guru, the second Guru in lineage of Naryana Guru of Kerala. Dialectical revaluation , consists in enquiring from one's own Aatman, what should I do? Atman does not care about money, politics or anything but the jeevatman requires some experiences to make it whole- this atman suggests karmas required by jeev atman so that it can become the paramatman. Enquiring again and again one will become skilled at recognizing the RIGHT ANSWER- voice of conscience in Christianity. This skill is acquired by practicing this skill all day, should I drink tea or coffee; play squash or tennis, do meditation or watch porn.... in simple matters soul will give unambiguous direction. As one gets better in this technique soul will start indicating if use of differential equations is better or use of statistical methods is better for solving an engineering problem. This is a self acquired skill, which is sharpened enormously if one is able to observe, the decision making by an enlightened master in his own milieu. Even an enlightened master can stumble in a bazaar or chandni Chowk but recovery is fast - one's own Atman is the only guide and skill in separating it's command from other bakwas going on in the mind is the only skill. Gita says Yoga is skill in works ( making the correct choice unerringly).
This provides guidance on right action at all times under all circumstances - but it is not a religion; It works for an individual and will take the practitioner to God but it is no good for preaching or dragging anybody else around.
EVERYONE appears to be out of cult.
Scribble,
I must say you hit the bull eye on this one. A simple reading of Gita says exactly what you said.
People try to make this politically correct by redefining the Dharma.
Gita clearly defines Dharma as Kula Dharma.
Now if the definition needs to be changed because the earlier definition is old and outdated, we should be honest enough to say so.
Society has croosed the Kula rubicon and entered a new a phase where caste has no role and hence Kula dharma does not mean anything.
In todays life, most of us stray upon our jobs by a combination of factors in which there is some choice and some real world selection and some compromise. Also the number of dharma also proliferated compared to 3000 years ago. So the method of putting a person in a Kula dharma no longer makes and is not practical and infact it is counter productive.
Swadharma“It is better to do your own duty, however imperfectly, than to assume the duties of another person, however successfully.”1
Relative existence–and we who find ourselves evolving within it–is dual in nature, comprised of Consciousness and Energy. Krishna has just explained to us that our actions must match our energy-nature, our prakriti. Now he says that our actions, including our livelihood, must be consistent with our state of conscious, our swabhava.
Our swabhava is our inherent psychic disposition, our psychological nature. It is not just the ebb and flow of our mental and emotional tides on the surface of the mind, but its bedrock condition that prevails throughout any momentary fluctuations.
That mode of external life which is consistent with our swabhava is our swadharma, the mode of life and duty that is natural to us, being based on our karma and samskara. Our swadharma is consistent with our natural current of evolution. Swabhava and swadharma are the natural consequences of our present evolutionary status. They both match our prakriti.
Just as external restraint is worthless, so action not according to swadharma is wasted action and hinders our progress, sometimes even harming us. Therefore Krishna continues: “Prefer to die doing your own duty: the duty of another will bring you into great spiritual danger.”2 This is no small thing.
How do we determine our swadharma? Not by letting others tell us what it is or letting society impose it on us. (This is the great evil of the degenerate “caste system” of India which is far from Krishna’s concept when he speaks of caste.) The only way to intelligently perceive our swadharma is to engage in swadhyaya, self-analysis, as recommended by Patanjali in the Yoga Sutras, thus underlining the fact that yoga is inseparable from an ordered and meaningful life.
This self-analysis is both intellectual and intuitive, and our intellect and intuition must be developed through meditation if our endeavor is to succeed. We must discover and live out our swabhava through our swadharma. This is the only way to peace and harmony within ourself.

Caste system is pernicious only for u and me. During krishna's times it wasn't. Everyone thought it was the best and they feared that it would get broken. By breaking the caste system, we have broken the concept of swadarma.
do ur own darma evenif u are not good at it rather than another's darma-said by krishna has very simple understandable meanings which any one who has a simple frame of mind of those days cane asily grasp.
No need to apply any complex intellectual matter.
KRishna was a social reformer in many ways. But removing caste system was not part of his agenda.
He was a true hindu and he understood it as mandatory for following dharma.
This in terms of Katriya, vaisya,...etc,...that's all.
Now what gyanputra says sounds nice and applicable for people like us who are rudderless. Show some way i n a valley where the blind leads the blind.
No need for such specious analysis, actually.Anyway, it amy be helpful for u.
In Krishna's time caste was accepted, folks generally did their caste duties and Krishna had no problem with it- so far so good.
Krishna is telling Arjuna about special significance of Swadharma, why he is not concerned with stri(women) dharma or brahmin Dharma or Kula dharma - simple answer is that his concern is for Arjuna to have gyan of Brahmvidya. He is unwilling to give this knowledge to any one of his loving friends, wives and others because he feels that only Arjuna has the qualifications for receiving this knowledge.
Express aim of Krishna is to destroy the kshatriya caste so that Kali Yuga can start- this is stated in bhagvatham. I don't know where you get your info that Krishna was a social reformer- sounds like convent lingo. In Gita Krishna expressly states that those who are going to be dead in Mahabharata are already selected and enactment of their death drama is all that is left; for this reason even if Arjuna did not kill them they will be dead in any case and Arjuna need to be rid of this delusion that he is the "doer" in reality the results, doership in entirely in the hands of God.
Krishna is not true" hindu" ; krishna is beyond any classification and has advocated only universal knowledge to Arjuna (only) and not taken with lower stuff like rituals, caste system. knowledge of Gita is for Arjuna and via Arjuna for others, who have competent teachers - like an enlightened master to teach it. This knowledge is beyond most luminaries at the time of Mahabharata.
Gyanputra is stating his partial and humble understanding of Natraja Gurus's technique of dialectical revaluation- this is something like gyan yoga like enquiry.
If you are unfamiliar with the works of Nataraja Guru, the Gita (as it is commonly called) is probably a good place to start, as it is more easily accessible than his later works. By "accessible" we mean that although it is quite complex and perhaps not an easy read, there is nothing in it
One point-
KRishna didnot try to destroy Kshatreeya kula. He himself was a kshatreeya...period
parasurama was doing it. He was a brahmin and was killing kshatreeyas to avenge death of his dad Jamadagni who was killed by an arrogant king while doing tapas. But deeper layers are that, the best yugas were continuing with out end and it was time for kaliyuga to start. So it is explain it away, they say that he did it for that sake, considering that he
was an extremely good man.
With the end of Ksahtreeyas, Brahmins would get no protection. It was believed that kshatreeeysas protected brahnmins who were
1. defenceless
2. who would easily stray away from righeous path, if they were not given patronage
With the straying of brahmins, the power of kali would increase on and on, till it meets its own end soon.
Thanks for sharing with ur carefully worded comment
regards