Is this cheating?
started by Redbull2008 9 mnths agoReplies
huh..
don't yuo have male/female friends in non virtual world? is that cheating?..only if you become a predator it become not only cheating it is dyfunctional..
and don't we flirt a lot in non virtual world too?
cummon..
i donno..only if you get emotionally involed withsomeone will u cheat on your spouse..and as it is that relationship must be dyfunctional too..:(
what do you say about visual stimulus is that not betrayal, we all know htat htere are better men/women out htere then our husbands and wifes but we cannot seek satisfaction or joy out of htat.
we flirt when we are single... i guess that is what most of the people do
exchange of words, in any form, consumes time and emotion. those who love you, and or depend on your well being, want to keep you away from any such exchanges. they think you're cheating if you give your time and emotion to someone else. it isn't the question of right or wrong. its a question of love.
balak...love?
haha
why are u so posessive...if someone gives their time and emotion to chatting your "love" will fly out of teh window..
what kinda love is it? bollywood style?
red bull,
this is such an excellent topic .
im surprised there aren't enough replies or concerns .
im not sure ..but i think it is cheating ..
it.happens in the mind ..only the mind ... so more forceful and dangerous than real life cheating .
Blade,
You made an assumption of attaching the question with person that asked it. Made it seem like my public confession of a private situation. I am not commenting on whether I have gone through it or not - but the question was certainly not related to my personal life. Situations like this are somewhat common among users of internet even though few would go on the roof top and say " I done it" The anonymity provided by the internet encourages the person to give vent to some inner desires - no matter how inconsequential these might be in her or his real life.
I like you not being sure but giving an opinion that you think it is cheating. Whether it is cheating or not is what my question was and both answers are equally acceptable to me.
Please respond freely – because this is not the last question I have here on the subject.
What you should ask yourself is why you are driven to do that?
If I were truly in love with my wife (there is none yet - for the hot women reading this :)) I would not be interested in sharing romantic moments with someone else. I would not even feel bored enough to get on to chat.
There is no right or wrong. There are only people and relationships between them. Evaluate yours.
To me, there's nothin wrong in it as long as it doesn't ruin a family/relationship. And if it did you can start one all over again. Good fun.