Poor wives on H4 in US

started by desi-seattle 9 mnths ago
Well educated and qualified wives are forced to leave their jobs back in India and are made to come to US on H4 juet to become so called house wives.

Isn't the system bullshit that restricts our spouses to work on H4 where in contrast to L2 they can work.

And not to mention the condition of those bored and lonely wives who have sacrificed  whole of their career just because of  that fake joy  which they get when some one back in India scraps them abt their beautiful pics of US in ORKUT.

I think one should not get marry on so called labor class H1B visa
What do you think guys ?

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  Uppili posted Re:Poor wives on H4 in US on 9 mnths ago
>> Well educated and qualified wives are forced to leave their jobs back in India and are made to come to US on H4 juet to become so called house wives.

Forced by who ?  Did some guy from the US consulate called you or your parents before the wedding ?

>> Isn't the system bullshit that restricts our spouses to work on H4 where in contrast to L2 they can work.

You knew how the bullshit system worked. If not, then blame your H1B and not the system....

>> And not to mention the condition of those bored and lonely wives who have sacrificed  whole of their career just because of  that fake joy  which they get when some one back in India scraps them abt their beautiful pics of US in ORKUT.


Wait wait... who asked you to sacrifice ? why did YOU sacrifice ? You should have listened to someone who was against coming here, and done some research.

>> I think one should not get marry on so called labor class H1B visa
What do you think guys ?


I don't know really. I would love to marry a H1B woman and zimbly jit at home - yap on the phone, chat on the net, and shop at the mall.... What a great life that would have been.....**sigh***

P.S. story time: there was a case like you... and after 2 years for different reasons returned to India. Found a job...found it was too tiring. Started whining, got pregnant, became a mom, and now a unhappy mom complaining about power cut, lack of water supply, workaholic hubby, and bored as hell...  Poor soul could not blame anyone now, except the US employer who agreed to send them back to India.

  BladeRunner posted Re:Poor wives on H4 in US on 9 mnths ago

No one is forcing anyone to be on H1B or H4. Stop whining and focus on NI vs SI debates


  Shuunya posted Re:Poor wives on H4 in US on 9 mnths ago

Personally, I think its the fault of the US visa system than H1B holders.

H1B is bonded labor.

H4B is home imprisonment.

 

 

  denice _menace posted Re:Poor wives on H4 in US on 9 mnths ago
they can do interships and volunteering..why sit on CH/..;p


  denice _menace posted Re:Poor wives on H4 in US on 9 mnths ago

There are  not only H4 qualified who are making sacrifices..there are many qualifieded women who have sacrificed their qua-lification for various reasons..
so we must think about all those women.


  Nyaya A nyaya posted Re:Poor wives on H4 in US on 9 mnths ago
i think such women need our attention...do you have those orkut id's 


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