depends. what makes u feel alive? start by forgiving yourself when u mess up. In fact - tell youself that u never mess up, they are just little mistakes which every human makes. something to learn from and move on. be your own friend?
umm. for every human tied to the electric chair for killing humans, there is a bhagat singh. its not the act, but the intention behind which defines 'rotten'. the man on electric chair might say - i wanna live.
what do ppl who have done something really 'superb' say? i wanna die? hope not.
dear denice
so after these responses what option have you chosen to exercise?
There is no reply to anyone from your end...
Instead of wasting others' time and energy - who have sincerely responded to your appeal (in retrospect like Dharmendra's overhead tank histrionics in Sholay?) - would suggest you write out your frustrations on a piece of paper; burn it and flush the ashes down the toilet pot..
this would reduce the menace part of your Sulekha persona..
remember the wolf-wolf story - after a while people would SToP RESPONDING to your appeals...
actually in real life i don't like tantrums and people who throw some, so I like to throw some around here..and get all the view points..
so, even if people stop responding it does't hurt after all this is an just an online forum.
Abhi tak aapka kya hua hai sir.. jo aage kuch hoga.. he he he .. you will keep doing what you are doing... like I am trying to change me from last 30 yrs... buttttttttt.... i end up doing what I swer not to do again.... so its all goes this way only....
I am not sure why one want to die... just imagine what if you are not around... do anyone care.. if not... then why die... if some care... then definitely no use of being dead... so buddy keep alive...
:) denice... do not think you are alone on this issue.. :) that is messing up with things , tactless, impulsiveness and then looking bleakly around... u got company.. so let us sit together and check out..
babe..you are the toughest, coolest gal here. dont let anyone break your spirit. we all go through shyte. things always have a way of working out. this too shall pass.
Go climb empire state building and jump..if you survive then try sears towers if that doesnt work then you are truly blessed and if you dont do either of the two you are double blessed because you are sensible enough to know what a lovely life you lead..
cheerup , go kick some ass :)))
vish
today you do three things:
one: give yourself a treat in your favorite restaurant with all favorite dishes...dont worry about wastage.
two: give yourself a gift, whatever, your favourite...dont worry about wastage.
three: take yourself to picnic, to your favourite place.... dont worry about wastage.
while doing this do it as if there is no tomorrow.... do like you are doing this for someone whom you love most in this world... and that's you..yourself.
we hv all been thru the depths of despair but somehow w/troubles god sends strength to rise above as well
claw your way out of the abyss- learn to love self as u r the unique u
if u r comfortable in yr skin and hv done no harm- then lick yr wounds n get up n fight
tomorrow is another day
cheer up
Denice...... Nah you must be another menace because the one I know is a fighter an smart enough to know that life ebbs and flows..... For me the way out of a rut is to compartmentalize my thoughts... not just say it really do it... When I am trubled or disaster strikes, I Put situations in boxes in my brain and sometimes on paper..... First I take all the things I can not change and put those away. Then I take the things I may be able to change if I do certain things and put those away for the future when I have contributed to the change..... Then I take the things that I can change and look at those..... and of course I take the things I don't want to change and keep that box open to remind me of the positive...
Please read the quotes below - I get out of the rut and negativity when I read them...
In everyone's life, at some time, our inner fire goes out. It is then burst into flame by an encounter with another human being.We should all be thankful for those people who rekindle the inner spirit. -Albert Schweitzer
To hurry pain is to leave a classroom still in session. To prolong pain is to remain seated in a vacated
classroom and miss the next lesson. –Yahia Lababidi
The truth is that our finest moments are most likely to occur when we are feeling deeply uncomfortable, unhappy, or unfulfilled. For it is only in such moments, propelled by our discomfort, that we are likely to step out of our ruts and start searching for different ways or truer answers. -M. Scott Peck
The greatest analgesic, soporific, stimulant, tranquilizer, narcotic, and to some extent even antibiotic -- in short, the closest thing to a genuine panacea -- known to medical science is work. -Thomas Szasz
The larger your world, the smaller your problems. -Scot Ninnemann
Mujhe kya buraa tha marna gar ek baar hota.... - Ghalib
you are already dead. You cant die twice. Start living?
what do ppl who have done something really 'superb' say? i wanna die? hope not.