i dont think i understand the situation clearly, but this should be your last option, think it through very clearly, whether you really want to do it. is there any other way so you can put a stop to the mental harassment.
maybe you can just take a week off and leave the house and stay somewhere else.
confront and make it very clear u cannot take this any more..
Dunno your circumstances. Am sure you have thought it through. But sometimes, if you just decided to stick it out, things change. Both should want it to change though, and be willing to talk. After all, so many years of marriage.
And stop dreaming about going back to India. That's just filling you with false warm and fuzzy feelings that all will be all right if you just go back. If you must go, go on a high and not on a low.
your right, no talks, it is better to keep my self sane rather than deal with something that is never ever going to change, marriage is a gamble yaar, sometimes you think that things will change and wait because of kids...but then it is a big sacrifice to make when you have only one life to live.
bangalore? with kids? with hubbs? will u work there? or live off your dollar savings?
and then my dollars and divorce dollars..will suffice.
maybe you can just take a week off and leave the house and stay somewhere else.
confront and make it very clear u cannot take this any more..
Dunno your circumstances. Am sure you have thought it through. But sometimes, if you just decided to stick it out, things change. Both should want it to change though, and be willing to talk. After all, so many years of marriage.
And stop dreaming about going back to India. That's just filling you with false warm and fuzzy feelings that all will be all right if you just go back. If you must go, go on a high and not on a low.
go back to sleep