Are Tamizh Woman Aggressive?
started by padmum 7 mnths agoFlat
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rashmun sometimes signs off as
Pandit rashmun.
this guy is rashmun.
Pandit rashmun.
this guy is rashmun.
If I were to know Tamizh folks only through Sulekha (minus Maria), I would conclude that they are genetically defective.
matlab?
matlab - my exposure to Tamizh folks wd have been limited to FF, Maxi, Kayal and now this Padmini who has some Tamizh oriented notions of the world as well.
padmini is not tamizh. he claims to be north indian up brahmin but most believe he is muslim for a reason.
Your post reminds me of my teacher who used to make us stand up on the bench for the flimsiest reasons.
Jokes apart Kannagi is a Tamizh Penn ,the heroine of the Sangam literature Silapathikaram who fought a lonley battle for a wothless husband but a worthy cause, bringing down the entire Pandya Kingdom to ashes.
Tamizh Penn has evolved over the times and one can see thousands of them walking through difficult situations with their pride and honour intact.
Most of the times her life is like that of a trapezee artist in a circus where she has to handle the warring in- laws. parents, children and colleagues at work places without losing her sense of balance.. Whining and complaining doesnt produce satisfactory results and shedding tears is reserved only for the women of the small screen.
So there are many Tamizh penn who make independent decisons and live life at their own terms without compromising the stability of their married life and kids. Just look around.
It is only the men who hide behind the pallus of their wives ,moms and girl friends who need to be brought out and given some dusting.
Jokes apart Kannagi is a Tamizh Penn ,the heroine of the Sangam literature Silapathikaram who fought a lonley battle for a wothless husband but a worthy cause, bringing down the entire Pandya Kingdom to ashes.
Tamizh Penn has evolved over the times and one can see thousands of them walking through difficult situations with their pride and honour intact.
Most of the times her life is like that of a trapezee artist in a circus where she has to handle the warring in- laws. parents, children and colleagues at work places without losing her sense of balance.. Whining and complaining doesnt produce satisfactory results and shedding tears is reserved only for the women of the small screen.
So there are many Tamizh penn who make independent decisons and live life at their own terms without compromising the stability of their married life and kids. Just look around.
It is only the men who hide behind the pallus of their wives ,moms and girl friends who need to be brought out and given some dusting.
On what basis is the assumption made that Tamizh women are more intelligent than other women? Is this as a result of extensively surveying across the whole of India or is it based on perception?
I know several Tamizh women who fit your description of them, but then again I know several who are very gentle, non-aggressive but equally intelligent and capable.
Marriages fail usually fail due to both parties being unable to discuss problems with each other in a non-confrontational manner and I for one strongly believe that it is not the fault of one or the other and that both parties share the blame on an equal basis. There are notale exceptions but it is an interesting posit that it may have to do with the nationality of one of the parties.
As an equally aggressive, noisy, articulate and non tolerant person of fools, also being (from long ago) a Tamilian, but of the male version, why should it not be argued that the divorces are due to the testorone dominated version?
I look forward to various replies to this one as it has been cleverly designed to get people's hackles up.
In defense of the Tamizh women, they certainly have contributed to producing a lovely race of people whom I am proud to belong to.
I know several Tamizh women who fit your description of them, but then again I know several who are very gentle, non-aggressive but equally intelligent and capable.
Marriages fail usually fail due to both parties being unable to discuss problems with each other in a non-confrontational manner and I for one strongly believe that it is not the fault of one or the other and that both parties share the blame on an equal basis. There are notale exceptions but it is an interesting posit that it may have to do with the nationality of one of the parties.
As an equally aggressive, noisy, articulate and non tolerant person of fools, also being (from long ago) a Tamilian, but of the male version, why should it not be argued that the divorces are due to the testorone dominated version?
I look forward to various replies to this one as it has been cleverly designed to get people's hackles up.
In defense of the Tamizh women, they certainly have contributed to producing a lovely race of people whom I am proud to belong to.
they are too agressive , too loud , too brazen and too smelly. And going by the heroisnes of tamizh films fat and ungainly. They just wait ti get their periods and run after their mama. their hormones sure work overtime.
Grahani,
They run after thier mama s and nothing harm in it. there is a different word to those who go behind and roam and date with everybody's mama s . Hope You never seen the heroes of kannada movies. The comedian of tamil movies are far far better than the Super heroes of Kannada.
uLarum,
piththan.
They run after thier mama s and nothing harm in it. there is a different word to those who go behind and roam and date with everybody's mama s . Hope You never seen the heroes of kannada movies. The comedian of tamil movies are far far better than the Super heroes of Kannada.
uLarum,
piththan.
FYI
I haven't dated dated a pure tamil girl yet.The closest to a tamilian were some girls from chennai who had atleast one parent from Karnataka.I found these girl very timid and demure as Rashmun says.But I have observed one tendency amongst these women,they had this compelling desire to cook for their man.I mean when some of these ladies were visting me,they insisted that they cook for me.It makes them happy perhaps.I guess all indian girls must be feeling this way,sex is viewed as nurturing than sport.
Looks like they are cooking you ;-)
ok.. so you are saying you are getting cooking girls during dating itself.
This shows you are outdated dude ;-)
most girls of today don't know how to cook, and they learn to do so mostly after marriage.
I haven't dated dated a pure tamil girl yet.The closest to a tamilian were some girls from chennai who had atleast one parent from Karnataka.I found these girl very timid and demure as Rashmun says.But I have observed one tendency amongst these women,they had this compelling desire to cook for their man.I mean when some of these ladies were visting me,they insisted that they cook for me.It makes them happy perhaps.I guess all indian girls must be feeling this way,sex is viewed as nurturing than sport.
Looks like they are cooking you ;-)
ok.. so you are saying you are getting cooking girls during dating itself.
This shows you are outdated dude ;-)
most girls of today don't know how to cook, and they learn to do so mostly after marriage.
What is this Tamizh?Are you refering to the persian word Tameezh here.
Hi
The word Tamizh is the actual pronunciation of the word--nothing to do with Persian.
On the radio and TV and in Print the word Tamil is featured which is the Anglicised version of the word. They pronounce it with a hard T like in 'tea' or 'th'.
The 'zh' is a unique Tamizh language sound as in 'Vazhaipazham'--the z in it comes closest but it is a tongue twister alright. The common way of saying it is 'vaalaipalam'
PN
The word Tamizh is the actual pronunciation of the word--nothing to do with Persian.
On the radio and TV and in Print the word Tamil is featured which is the Anglicised version of the word. They pronounce it with a hard T like in 'tea' or 'th'.
The 'zh' is a unique Tamizh language sound as in 'Vazhaipazham'--the z in it comes closest but it is a tongue twister alright. The common way of saying it is 'vaalaipalam'
PN
>> So will the real Tamizh penn (girl) stand up please!!
Padmini AvargaLe, why can't they sit and respond to your post ? ;-)
Anbirkuriya padmini avargale,
YES. they are agressive and extremely assertive and passionate about everything in life.
EOD.
Mikka nandri.
ungal thamizhachi, G3
YES. they are agressive and extremely assertive and passionate about everything in life.
EOD.
Mikka nandri.
ungal thamizhachi, G3
G3, please translate the following words: Anbirkuriya; Mikka; Ungal; thamizhachi
I suppose 'avargale' is equivalent to 'garu' in telugu.
Nandri = greetings??
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So, by saying YES to Padmini's question, you are admitting that tamizh women tend to be aggressive?
Hmm...., I appreciate your honesty. Apparently, you don't think that being aggressive is a negative trait.
I suppose 'avargale' is equivalent to 'garu' in telugu.
Nandri = greetings??
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So, by saying YES to Padmini's question, you are admitting that tamizh women tend to be aggressive?
Hmm...., I appreciate your honesty. Apparently, you don't think that being aggressive is a negative trait.
CH poster Scribblingpad is a tamilian; she comes across as demure rather than assertive, as do u. I cannot comment on the passionate aspect.
"CH poster Scribblingpad is a tamilian; she comes across as demure rather than assertive, as do u. I cannot comment on the passionate aspect."
>>> i don't know that she is a tamilian. she may well be but there is no basis to say that. she claims that she is from chennai though. i don't know about aggressiveness but the tamil women i have known in my life are certainly assertive and don't suffer fools lightly.
I think 'assertive' or 'strong' is a better descriptor than 'aggressive'.
the Tamizh women are not exactly on a prowl and pumped up on adrenaline.
*First of all- "aggressive"/ "assertive" - are all subjective terms...
*And why is "being on a prowl and pumped up on adrenaline"- necessarily a bad thing? I think- it is a compliment on "certain occasions":)
I know Tamizh women (tigresses) who can be on a prowl and pumped up- when they want to be! I don't think all tamizh men...or any man always wants a "lazy" tigress, passive and lacking in energy...*all the time!
M
>>> i don't know that she is a tamilian. she may well be but there is no basis to say that. she claims that she is from chennai though. i don't know about aggressiveness but the tamil women i have known in my life are certainly assertive and don't suffer fools lightly.
Question for you Max: are NI women more aggressive than SI women?
i don't know what that question means. aggressive in what respect? the only NI girls/women i've known were the ones i met while a student at the IIT. all the girls (the ones i knew well) regardless of their ethnic background were quite similar in personality - intelligent, driven, hard working, and a little insecure. the ones i know on a social basis are not particularly impressive. i have nothing much to say about them.
I think 'assertive' or 'strong' is a better descriptor than 'aggressive'.
the Tamizh women are not exactly on a prowl and pumped up on adrenaline.
*First of all- "aggressive"/ "assertive" - are all subjective terms...
*And why is "being on a prowl and pumped up on adrenaline"- necessarily a bad thing? I think- it is a compliment on "certain occasions":)
I know Tamizh women (tigresses) who can be on a prowl and pumped up- when they want to be! I don't think all tamizh men...or any man always wants a "lazy" tigress, passive and lacking in energy...*all the time!
M
"the Tamizh women are not exactly on a prowl and pumped up on adrenaline."
Really? And your observation is based on..what?
M
Really? And your observation is based on..what?
M
If you have the statistics to prove I will be happy as a tamil woman.
Do you mean the tamil woman of recent times?clarify.
Till 2000 they were considered as conservatives. They talk but dont talk back.
If you take present day scenario education and a job offer them freedom but again it is not only to tamil woman.
I agree with this statement
"At the same time, many Tamil women do not complain. They are taught to get on with the business of living. So they ignore insults and injury and walk off from difficult situations."