RS-K posted Re:The politics of life on 3 mnths ago
I used to be the blurt-out-what-is-in-your-heart type. Never worked, but was so much easier for my heart.
- When to say something, and be sure it is the right timing?
- When not to say it, when you badly want to but know it will have bad after effects. How to console your self then?
- How to manage the people who have nothing to do with you, but are somehow related? You end up hurting them, cause you are so focused on setting something else straight. If you fear all that, how to make the right decisions? If you don't fear that, how to deal with the newfound cold heartedness.
- When to say something, and be sure it is the right timing?
- When not to say it, when you badly want to but know it will have bad after effects. How to console your self then?
- How to manage the people who have nothing to do with you, but are somehow related? You end up hurting them, cause you are so focused on setting something else straight. If you fear all that, how to make the right decisions? If you don't fear that, how to deal with the newfound cold heartedness.
etc.