Can a person fall in love with two people at the same time?

started by GhoshMousumi 1 week ago
Hi all,

Guess evrybody has fallen in love once in their life. But i want to ask people is it possible to fall in love with twoo people at the same time?

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  BladeRunner posted Re:Can a person fall in love with two people at the same time? on 1 hour ago
yes. Even more than two. Unless the guy is perfect like me.

  denice _menace posted Re:Can a person fall in love with two people at the same time? on 4 hrs ago
that'z called polygamy yaar

but we all love multiple partners..it's just that the ethics of commitment keeps us tied.
  scribblingpad posted Re:Can a person fall in love with two people at the same time? on 1 hour ago
I don't think multiple partners would help women weave their magic of love.Won't work. U need one good guy, that's all...
Yeaah....One good guy is more than enof.
Really no complaints.hehehhehe


  scribblingpad posted Re:Can a person fall in love with two people at the same time? on 4 hrs ago
It is difficult to fall in love even with one person. How can we fall in love with two?
We can  fall in faith. Fall in love? impossible. Nobody can fall in love in this world.
We fall in desire and we desire to fall. That is all there is to it.
Love is a forgotten word.
we love none other than ourselves and we do what we can to acquire. something or "someone"  for ourselves.
In the name of love we make an acquisiton/
  Uppili posted Re:Can a person fall in love with two people at the same time? on 3 hrs ago
Dummy....Fall in love means...

FalliNG (and getting hurt while) in Love......;)

I like Americans in that regard... They fall in love with everything... shirt, shoes, skirts, cars, and of course men and women... with the only difference that their love with men/women lasts shorter than with shoes and shirts.
  deep purple posted Re:Can a person fall in love with two people at the same time? on 3 hrs ago
honestly. i havent met even one 40 yr old american who is not divorced once. met 60 yr olds. but not 40 yr olds.
  Uppili posted Re:Can a person fall in love with two people at the same time? on 2 hrs ago
I am  not surprised... Unless a Desi works outside the usual I world they don't come across many whites. They feel comfortable living within their own commune-type env.

My neighbor is married for 35+ years and just last month at a meeting I had lunch with a guy who was married for 45+years  and a chick 45+ female married for 25+ years.  In fact I was the only Indian in a crowd of 300+.
  deep purple posted Re:Can a person fall in love with two people at the same time? on 2 hrs ago
oh no. i come across a lot of 35-45 yr olds. your neighbors example are again are of ppl over 40s. like i said, i also know quite a few 50-60 yr olds who have been married since HS.





  star light posted Re:Can a person fall in love with two people at the same time? on 3 days ago
yaha! Happens all the time.  Dont you see Bachelor and Bachelorette?

  Swapnil30 posted Re:Can a person fall in love with two people at the same time? on 3 days ago
Nahi Nahi

We can sleep with as many but can not share Love with more then one person. 

From personal experience.

  ARVIND NARVEKAR posted Re:Can a person fall in love with two people at the same time? on 5 days ago
Why  not ?   Love  is  pure  sentiment.   Love  is  sacred.
Love  for  Spouse  is  different  from  love  for  a  friend !
With  your  Spouse,  Love  tranforms  into  intimacy,  but
with  a  friend,  Love  is  a  noble  relationship.
Love  is  the  strongest  of  emotions. 
at  any  time  you  may  love  many,  like  your  Mom  or
your  daughter  or  your  favourite  leader......  but   each
kind  has  its  own  meaning  and  identity.
Love  for  God  is  supreme.

  Preeti Sez posted Re:Can a person fall in love with two people at the same time? on 5 days ago
nope, it actually goes like this- you fall in love with one person, you get up and start walking and you see another cute one and unknowingly you fall again, you probably get up and start walking...
Moral of the story- You can fall in love with more than one person if you aren't satisfied with that one person. Kewl na?

  Vasudevan Raghavan posted Re:Can a person fall in love with two people at the same time? on 5 days ago
Hi,

If you just need a simple one-word answer, it is "YES". But whether it will last a life-time, whether the "threesome" would be  a stable configuration, is another question. Ultimately, the man or woman would have to choose ONE between the two.

  manoj eagle posted Re:Can a person fall in love with two people at the same time? on 6 days ago
you ask Can......
say should....and are.
every person should fall in love with at least two persons at the same time.
and every person is in love with more than one person at the same time.
you ask your friends, ask your spouce, ask yourself.
isn't it true that at any given point in life we love more than one person (those persons may be excluding your spouce).

  kalpita raj posted Re:Can a person fall in love with two people at the same time? on 6 days ago
Dear Alls',
                    HI ! oh well I think a woman's mind is as deep as  an ocean, she can fall in in love with two at times but she'll accept & respond to only one person but if she's soft hearted and if  she can't  hurt another person's emotions she can be very well empathatic to him. So she may go ahead and make him a family friend or a  well-wisher.(exceptions do exist, of course)
                   In the case of men; the men can fall two or even more than two people at times.(he's considered as polygamic by nature) but except honourrable handful exceptions, men are less open-minded, less kind or emotional. When they find some-one who's got more merits,plus points than the previous girl they luved,  they start thinking in terms of dropping the previous one.  (They are never bothered about the sorrows caused by them. ) So either they start humiliating, insulting, mal treating or  treating roughly that girl or  they act in such a way that girl herself should drift apart from them. When the girl is dumped / dropped then the  men generally don't admit the fact that this happened only because they changed their minds or got drawn towards some one else. They just keep  blaming the girl for the break-up . They find faults in her and keep telling her the minus points only , forgetting the truth that they themselves are not so perfect  as nobody on this earth's perfect.---Anyway,

  Vaidyanathan Pushpagiri posted Re:Can a person fall in love with two people at the same time? on 6 days ago

                                                                

                                                                             Should be posible?


  Vijayaraghav posted Re:Can a person fall in love with two people at the same time? on 7 days ago

It's possible,  but the future may not be that bright.  A wonderful relationship needs mutual understanding, in this case i doubt that's going to happen in anyway.  It requires balancing of relationships or else you will plunge into the deep waters.


  sohini saha posted Re:Can a person fall in love with two people at the same time? on 1 week ago
hey..love is blind as they say so with out ur glasses on you can fall in love with innumerable men and women :))

  deep purple posted Re:have u met a person who has fallen in love with one? on 1 week ago
nothing is impossible, but have u met a person who has fallen in love with one? 

  Ether posted Re:Can a person fall in love with two people at the same time? on 1 week ago
Yes - me and my shadow - twin tales!

  asiamajorminor posted Re:Can a person fall in love with two people at the same time? on 1 week ago
Yes, I'm of the opinion that is it possible and have not seen any contradictory evidence. 

'Falling in love' is a neuro-physio-biological process (BTW no urine is involved) that happens on the way to establishing an intimate relationship.

I think we tend to romanticize the whole concept, and because we do not always discuss it in scientific terms we have this kind of doubt in the first place. 


  ratan khatri posted Re:Can a person fall in love with two people at the same time? on 1 week ago

Hi Mousumi

I am ratan khatri, the owner of this web site. when i started this website back in 90's, i wanted all the indians all over the globe to come closer and share whatever they want. in last more than 10 years, i have realized that you cannot share anything if you cannot share your pictures. and i, as an administrator of this forum, have to ask you to post your pics before you post any more threads failing which you will be banned from this forum.

happy surfing.

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  GhoshMousumi posted Re:Can a person fall in love with two people at the same time? on 4 days ago
But posting a pic is not safe. Moreover i've seen so many ppl who have not posted their pics but are still members of this forum.

  jaijui posted Re:Can a person fall in love with two people at the same time? on 1 week ago
Is ratan khatri 
sey agar ki mainey maitri 
Will he lend me his chhatri 
On a wet and rainy ratri ?     bolo 
  ratan khatri posted Re:Can a person fall in love with two people at the same time? on 1 week ago

my chhatri is all yours, jj.


  mf02 posted Re:Can a person fall in love with two people at the same time? on 1 week ago
I am sure he will lend you his chhatri on any ratri, not just wet and rainy..

Chhatri--> Khaitya--> Choli ke peeche kya hai?

RK..you hit the jackpot today! 

Bin maange moti mile,
Maange mile na choor...
  ratan khatri posted Re:Can a person fall in love with two people at the same time? on 1 week ago
sure, i hit the jackpot. matter of time before i hit the j-spot.
  jaijui posted Re:Can a person fall in love with two people at the same time? on 1 week ago
If my name was Gayatri 
i would go for Ratan Khatri
since it is not so 
and this i do know
Mebbe settle for Rail ki Patri      huh
  shakenbut!stirred posted Re:Can a person fall in love with two people at the same time? on 1 week ago
"Kripaya Mantralaya chya pudhe SuSuchalaya  navhe"

You are wunly allowed to recite da  Gayathri Mantra
In this sanctum sanctorium, if u are practised in Tantra
So pliss shed all ur clothings and be Swatantra ...

  aa posted Re:Can a person fall in love with two people at the same time? on 1 week ago
Is your name Lauh Path Gaamini?



  jaijui posted Re:Can a person fall in love with two people at the same time? on 1 week ago
now remember  a chhatri is only useful to me on wet days  ...   
yeh khaitya kya hota hain ..nothing like satya ..... far from it   huh 
ismey chor kaun ho sakta hain ?  questions questions  
  mf02 posted Re:Can a person fall in love with two people at the same time? on 1 week ago
Why, what do you use on the dry days? Some electro-mechanical devices? or some 'organic' stuff?

Sorry, that khaitya was a typo, it should have been 'khatiya', the one you sleep on and then 'hilao' as in 'jab kisi ki khatiya dole'.

'Chor' nahin Choor as in laddu! As goes that saying..
  jaijui posted Re:Can a person fall in love with two people at the same time? on 1 week ago
tera hindi  mujhey ooperwalla lagta hain ..say  ...sbs  wants you to wear a topi for the torrential rains ...he is too shy to say it ..:)
  mf02 posted Re:Can a person fall in love with two people at the same time? on 1 week ago

wokay! I will ask Ratan Khatri to always wear his Chhatri..when mating with gal from RatnaGiri

*see I can rhyme too*

 

  jaijui posted Re:Can a person fall in love with two people at the same time? on 1 week ago

you are a poet laureate 
and i did not know it 

hogi maramari
agar girl from ratnagiri
resorts to dadagiri
so carry some kalamiri
and send her on vacation Kashmiri 

  mf02 posted Re:Can a person fall in love with two people at the same time? on 1 week ago
Girl from Ratnagiri
commited Harakiri
When she coveted
Ratan Khatri's Chhatri
Over SB!S's Pagri
  MaxEntropy_Man posted Re:Can a person fall in love with two people at the same time? on 1 week ago
>>> pinky - whence this new obsession with rhymes?






  shakenbut!stirred posted Re:Can a person fall in love with two people at the same time? on 1 week ago
Ms Morning Sickness
You dont need a chhatri
You need a Topi
On your date
All the time..
Tyala saang ghalun thev...
  shakenbut!stirred posted Re:Can a person fall in love with two people at the same time? on 1 week ago
tyala saang ghalun thev...

jevtana
muth ta na..
etc. etc.






  Indophile posted Re:Can a person fall in love with two people at the same time? on 1 week ago
Not a problem. I know of a situation when 2 boys together fell madly in love with a combination 7 girls. The boys were in 6th grade and the girls were in assorted grades 4th through 6th.
  Amerasian posted Re:Can a person fall in love with two people at the same time? on 1 week ago
LOL.....Also, scenario of two women falling in love with one man or two guys falling in love with one woman occurs everyday in 'Soap Operas'. So, it must be possible. 
  mf02 posted Re:Can a person fall in love with two people at the same time? on 1 week ago

Awesome! The Soap Operas are the new Bibles..

  Amerasian posted Re:Can a person fall in love with two people at the same time? on 1 week ago
Awesome! You failed to recognize the satirical tone of my post.
  mf02 posted Re:Can a person fall in love with two people at the same time? on 1 week ago
"Awesome! You failed to recognize the satirical tone of my post."




  Aftaab posted Re:Can a person fall in love with two people at the same time? on 1 week ago
:))))

this reminds me.. most guys in class were madly in love with a lot of teachers in school .. :)


  gyanputra posted Re:Can a person fall in love with two people at the same time? on 1 week ago
Your next post is likely to be , can one love 3 people......